Sunday, 3 September 2017

If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you

September 03, 2017
About Relationship

It’s hard pill to swallow. But the truth is going to heal your heart a lot faster than simply letting it break over and over until you finally face what you knew all along anyway.

If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you

There are a million possibel scenarios here. It’s easier when he’s an asshole-selfish, only thinking of himself, using you to make someone else jealous, using you in general, treating you poorly, crushing you thoughtlessly, whateve. But it’s a lot harder when he’s a good guy, and you still have to let him go. When he tells you that you’re an incredible person, but he just doesn’t feel the same way that you do. Or when he really likes you, but doesnt think you are the one. Or when he just doesnt feel as strongly as you do and he wants to be honest. Or when he cant seem to make up his mind and feels confused, which he doesnt yet realize just means that he’s afraid of hurting you, that feeling “confused” just a softer way of eventually saying ‘no’. If he wanted to be with you, he wouldnt have had to make up his mind in the first place. It would just be an answer that he felt deeply in his gut.

But regardless, whether he is wonderful guy or an asshole or somewhere in between, this is about you, moving on, Because no matter what the situation was , no matter how well he treated you or how much fun you had together or how well you got along, he doesn't want to be with you. And that’s the truth. And that’s going to be you life raft for the next several weeks or months, no matter how much you don't want to grab onto it. It is what is going to eventually help you come to peace with the  end of your relationship, or the fizzling out of your fling, or the “no more talking” after you guys spent so much time “talking”. It is the truth and ugly as it is. It will be the only thing that can help you move on.

If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you

It’s easy to try to soften the blow. He needs time, or he just needs a little space, or he just afraid of commitment and i just need to reassure him, or he builds walls and it’s my job to kick through them.
But think about the way you feel about him. How easy and natural and obvious it feels. How you don't even need to question weather or not you should be with him, because it just feels right in your veins.How, even if you were scared of committing to someone or getting hurt or opening yourself up, you were still willing to do it, because your heart had already made up your mind. You wanted to be with him, so you were. The decision was simple. It really wasn't even a decision at all.

Now you can imagine feeling all those things but choosing to be with him anyway?

That’s why you heart is broken, because he didn't feel those things. He didn't feel that same certainty that you did, deep in your bones. And you cant change that, and you cant fix yourself, and there’s nothing  you did wrong. It’s just the truth. His heart didn't make the decision for his brain, because his heart is in different place from yours. And that really, really sucks. Ans you just have to accept it and that sucks even more.

May be you will get over this in weeks, maybe months, may be longer. It will hurt, someday will be horrible and some will be okay. But the smallest silver lining is this: you can let your heart break once-instead of breaking it a million times by convincing yourself that he’s making a mistake or he probably misses you or you should call him. Love yourself enough to be hard on yourself.


If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you.

Tuesday, 30 May 2017

I want a Love

May 30, 2017
I want a love so deep that I don't have to say much to be understood. I want a love so loyal that I still feel reassured even when you are not around. I want a love so passionate that your touches light me up from inside. I want a love so nurturing that you correct me when I am wrong. I want a love so comforting that being in your arms feels like coming home. I want a love that completes me. I want a love so real I have no room for second thoughts about you.


Saturday, 25 March 2017

You Mean Everything to Me

March 25, 2017

Whenever I look at you, I feel as if I am looking at you for the first time, even though we have been together for so many years. Everyday is like the first day for me, that wonderful day when I first met you. You are like a sun that shines so brightly that it eats up all the darkness in my life. The light of your love has brightened every nook and corner of my heart and my life. The thing which disturbed me before , hold no fear for me now. It's you and only you that matters to me. Nothing is more Important than you are to me. Your love gave me new meaning to my life and I will never let it diminish. I will cherish you and adore you for the eternity. No matter how much we argue or fight, no matter how much we stay apart, we will always love each other, we will always be there for each other. Even when no one else stays by us, we will still be together because it is WE who matter. It's your love that matters nothing else.

Thursday, 16 March 2017

Real Man Never Cheat on His Woman

March 16, 2017

When a real man tells you that he loves you, then you will become his priority. You will become center of his world, you will become the axis of his life and his life will only revolve around you. He will consider it as his responsibility to make you feel loved in every possible ways. he will make sure that he takes out special time for you no matter how busy he is, he will give his undivided attention and love to you to make you feel special always. He will listen to your endless conversations and your childhood stories. He would want to sleep on your arms and wake up in your arms. he will be completely transparent in his relationship with you and never hide anything from you. He will never sugarcoat his words to impress you and he will always tell you truth by looking straight into your eyes. He will be possessive about you and he will be jealous of the other men you interact with because he would never like to share your attention. He will always try to fulfill his commitments and promises. He will turn the world upside down to see smile on your face. he will cherish your imperfection and he will appreciate the woman you are. He will never cheat and he will never play with your feelings and emotions. A real man will treasure his woman and there will be nothing in this world he would want more than to stay by her side forever.


Wednesday, 8 March 2017

Beauty by EMMA WATSON

March 08, 2017


Beauty is not long hair, skinny legs, tanned skin or perfect teeth. Believe me. Beauty is the face of who cried and now smiles, beauty is the scar on your knee since you fell when you were kid, beauty is the circle when love doesn't let you sleep, beauty is the expression on the face when the alarm rings in the morning, it’s the melted makeup when you have shower, it’s the laughter when you make a joke you’re the only one who can understand, beauty is meeting his gaze and stopping understanding, beauty is your gaze when you see him, it’s when you cry for all you paranoias, beauty is the line marked by time. Beauty is what we feel inside which also shows outside us. Beauty is the mark the life leaves on us, all the kicks and caresses the memories leave us. Beauty is letting yourself live.


Wednesday, 1 March 2017

The Only Way A Relationship Can Last

March 01, 2017

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter in a relationship in order to get something, They are trying to find someone who is going to make them feel better. In reality, the only way a relationship will last if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. It will never be a healthy relationship where you only want to get and ultimately it will not last. Open your heart to give not to get.


Monday, 13 February 2017

True love is very rare

February 13, 2017

True love is very rare. It doesn't happen when you want it, It will come when it is time. You will not get it in a form you wanted rather It will come in a unexpected way. It will not as you imagined but surely it will be at its best. In search of love you might didn't notice it was in-front of you. May be you was looking your love in Suit or Black Audi or In Miss Universe but your love was in a regular person whom you meet everyday in work or in School. Love is not to have the richest or most beautiful guy/girl, Love is appreciating whatever that person has to offer you. They might be not perfect, they will have flaws, But it will be True. Fake things are flawless. Do not run after a perfect person, wait for the true one and you will never have to blame anyone. On this day of love, do not set your expectation for love, just keep your heart open and accept what what true love has to offer you #HAPPYVALENTINESDAY


Wednesday, 8 February 2017

Are you waiting for Mr.Perfect ?

February 08, 2017
Are you waiting for Mr perfect? These days it's a gamble to find the right man who is ready for a life long commitment. These days even being in relationship is like going through an emotional roller coaster and when relationship ends in a disaster they leave you feeling more shattered and lonely than you were before started out.You will come across so many men who just want have casual love affair and short term relationship just for fun. Sometimes you just come across someone who is so handsome and good looking that you get carried away and end up wanting to have a long lasting relationship with him. But don't rush into relationship just because you have fallen for someone's good looks and charm. It is better to be single than wasting your time and emotions on someone who wont even take you seriously. Wait for the right man who doesn't leave you feeling more lonely than you are feeling being single. Wait for someone who is genuine and honest with you. You might be feeling lonely being single but if you trust Almighty's plan for your life partner then you can save yourself from needless heartbreaks and misery. One day the right man will enter your life so have patience and stay strong. Sometimes being single is better than being in a wrong relationship.

Monday, 6 February 2017

The Pain in Long Distance Relationships

February 06, 2017
Long distance relationships are difficult and there will be times you think of giving up, times you wonder how much longer you can hold on. But the dilemma you face when you feel that way, the reason is tearing you inside because there's love in the relationship. What you are feeling is normal, especially when separated from the person who should be closest to you. Doubts come and go like morning and night. There's anger, frustration and depression and they all because the two of you are not together. The thoughts you have about giving up comes from being fed up of the physical distance between you. It's pain you can feel you no longer take from being separated. But this is the time to be strong and think that perhaps the two of you are destined to be together like this only for a while, perhaps this is a test of your love and it it is true and strong Almighty will one day bring the two of  you together and make ONE. But only if you hold on, wait for that day, have trust and patience .


Saturday, 4 February 2017

You are my everything

February 04, 2017
Love,You mean more to me than you will ever know. I know that you know I love you but I just wish you understood just how much I think of you. I wish you knew how I want to spend every waking moment in your arms, feeling your heart beating next to mine. I want to see your face every morning before the sun rays wish me good morning. I want everything do to be something that is just for you. Thoughts of you have taken over my mind so much that nothing else ever comes near it. My heart longs for your touch and your embrace every moment of the day and my soul aches to be reunited with yours every night. I see you with my eyes closed and keep you safely tucked away in my heart. I love you so much that I feel jealous everything that touches you, every person you talk to. It's my obsession and my possessiveness that makes me miss you so much, even when I know you are only mine, your heart only knows me and loves me only. But I can't help that my love for you makes me jealous, you are my heart and soul, without you I am nothing. Your love is my life and my every breath is for you because you are everything to me love, You are my addiction and my obsession, you are my everything.


What a Man Wants

February 04, 2017

A man doesn't want a perfect woman..He just needs a woman who is perfect for him. He simply needs someone who will love him and understand him. That's all a man wants-someone he can share his life with,someone who can take care of his home and his needs but who also loves him deeply and never ignores him or takes him for granted, A man needs a woman who trusts his abilities and never second guesses him, but stands besides him though everything. That's who he's looking for, the one who accepts his imperfections and bad habits and wont try to change him into somebody else. It's love that has the power to change a person and when a man finds the woman that's right for him, he'll do whatever it takes to keep her, even if it means working on his bad habit. An honest man just wants an honest woman who understands him and listens to everything he has on his mind. he wants the one who will spoil him with her love so he can love her the same in return, he wants the one who will never give up on him.



Friday, 3 February 2017

20 Valentines's Day Quote

February 03, 2017

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance"- Oscar Wilde
"There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough".-Nicholas Sparks 
"One is loved because one is loved. No reason needed for loving".-Paul Coelho 
 "The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plats fire in our hearts ad bring peace to our mind."-Nicholas Sparks
"When we love, we always strive become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us become better too"-Paul Coelho
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage"-Lao Tzu
"I fell in love the way you fall asleep:slowly, and then all at once"-John Green
"If you live to be hundred, i want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you"-A.A.Milne
"True love stories never have ending"-Richard Bach
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person"-Mignon McLaughlin
"There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved"-George Sand
"If I had a flower for every time I thought of you..I could walk through my garden forever"-Alfred Thmpson
"Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are same"-Emily Bronte
"You don't love someone because they're perfect, you love in spite of the fact that they're not"-Jodi Picoult
"A friend is someone who knows all about you, and still loves you"-Elbert Hubbard
"The heart has its reasons which reason knows not"-Blaise Pascal
"We are all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness-and call it love. True Love"-Robert Fulghum
"Where there is love, there is life"-Mahatma Gandhi
"For the two of us, home isn't a place. It is a person and we are finally home"-Stephanie Perkins